Hey there! Happy quarter of the way through the year. I have today off from work, and I am doing a little relaxing with a bit of housework. I wanted to feel a little productive, as is the norm, I suppose. You can’t be too restful lest you be mistaken for lazy.
I went to my yearly OB/Gyn exam with the Nurse Practitioner, armed with my blood work results from January and three pages of notes as to why I didn’t feel I was being heard by the medical professionals I’d seen this year. While trying to maintain my composure and be strong, I burst into tears while telling her that my primary physician had casually said to me that “people with your BMI typically have fatty liver, and that’s why I’m not concerned about your liver enzyme test results.” I exclaimed that fatty liver is a whole diagnosis according to what I could find online and that he hadn’t made any effort to resolve it.
I, however, have been trying to resolve the issue by losing 1% of my body weight, which was shown in research to reduce fatty liver disease in most patients in a few studies I’d seen. Not only had I been unsuccessful, I gained a few pounds and have been absolutely exhausted. I’d already been struggling with a loss of strength since December. I haven’t been able to lift as much or do the things I used to despite continuing to do Crossfit most days of the week and eating a protein-heavy diet.
The Nurse Practitioner was the first person who had made me feel like I was heard. Except she didn’t know exactly what to do about it because her specialty lies more in the health of the female reproductive system, and we’d already done our diligence on examining my reproductive organs as the cause of my weight problems in the past. She prescribed medicine to help me sleep better, citing that weight loss and working out are difficult when I’m not sleeping well. She prescribed something to take with my antidepressant to potentially help with the weight gain that could be a result of that medicine. She offered to see me back in one month but told me to ensure I’ve established a new primary care physician beforehand. She admitted that this is a little beyond her expertise and would like to be able to defer to my doctor.
When she left the room after my exam and discussion, I cried. I hadn’t felt listened to at all since January. My doctors made me feel HUGE and unhealthy. All I wanted since this started was to prove that I wasn’t fat because I was lazy or unable to control myself. I wanted to prove that my problems weren’t because of me. They were real. While I feel like I’ve resigned to using medicine to treat symptoms of a greater problem, I also feel desperation to stop feeling tired and physically weak. Most people will tout that diet and exercise will solve everything and if it doesn’t work, try harder. This can be hurtful to people who are trying, who aren’t feeling better, who then want to separate themselves from those people no matter how much they like them.
On the plus side, I’ve signed up for a 10k race at the end of April. I’m psyched to train up. I have 3 miles. Just need to double that up, and I’ll finally finish an Illinois Marathon race. I deferred so many times; I finally dropped it and asked them to give my entry away. I’m still doing Crossfit despite feeling weak and not coming near the level I was.
How have you been? Do you ever feel the people you trust with your health aren’t listening to you?
Thanks for reading! I’ll see how training goes, drop in from time to time, and try to figure out what my body is trying to tell me.
Oh….I got a haircut and color. Check me out!